A prostate massager is a sex toy that’s specifically designed to stimulate the P-spot.

Most people with a penis move on to prostate sex toys once they’ve discovered the area with fingers first, but go with whatever feels right to you.

Most prostate massagers, like the Rocks Off Teazer Petite Sensations Beginner’s Vibrating Butt Plug, have a tapered tip to ease insertion and a rounded head to ensure stimulation in the right spot.

Certain toys, such as the Desire Luxury Remote Control Prostate Massager, feature a wireless remote, allowing you to enjoy seamless anal vibrations with a click of a button.

Some also feature an external stimulator to give extra attention to the perineum, the sensitive area between the anus and the scrotum.

Although many people see larger prostate massagers as more advanced, the bigger ones, like the Lelo Loki Wave Vibrating Prostate Massager, are actually ideal for beginners as they find your P-spot much more easily.

Massagers with smaller tips, like the Lovehoney P-Play Silicone Prostate Massager, make it slightly harder to find the prostate gland but can make the experience more intense.

Deciding on whether you want a prostate massager with vibrations or not is a personal choice. Just remember – you can turn vibrations off if you don’t like them, but you can’t add them to a non-vibrating prostate massager.

Whichever type of prostate massager you decide to go for, using them is much the same.