The iDear Guide to Sex Toys for Men
Explore the diverse world of sex toys specifically crafted for people with penises.
Sex toys truly are for everyone who wants one. Whether you’re a proud owner of a vulva or a penis, there’s a perfect adult toy out there waiting to be discovered.
While sex toys were once primarily associated with female pleasure, that’s no longer the case. Today, men and people with penises are embracing the joys of adult toys, experiencing enhanced masturbation sessions and deeper sexual satisfaction.
So, what kinds of sex toys are available for men and people with penises? Plenty! There are many different types, shapes, and sizes—everything depends on where you’d like to focus the stimulation and how. If you’re unsure where to start, this guide will help you find the ideal male sex toy for your needs.
Why Use a Male Sex Toy?
Duh—because it’s insanely fun! But beyond the obvious enjoyment, there are some surprising benefits to using male sex toys:
- Strokers : Help you train to last longer in bed by simulating real sensations and improving stamina.
- Cock Rings : Can potentially make your erection stronger and help it last longer, enhancing both pleasure and performance.
- Prostate Massagers : Open the door to the mind-blowing world of P-spot stimulation, offering intense full-body orgasms.
- Vibrating Toys : Add an extra layer of sensation that can intensify your orgasms and elevate your experience to new heights.
The Different Types of Male Sex Toys
Whether you’re looking for something to use with a partner, to enhance the size of your pride and joy, or to experience the most mind-blowing solo session ever, iDear has got you covered. We’ve organized our extensive selection of toys into main categories, making it easy for you to pick a product and dive deeper into exploration.
Time to set sail and explore what’s below deck, gentlemen.
Male Masturbators
A male masturbator—also known as a stroker or stroker sleeve—is an excellent starting point if you’re new to the world of male sex toys. With a non-realistic design, these toys are approachable and unintimidating, making it easy to immerse yourself in their slippery, sensational embrace.
Though simple in design, male masturbators deliver powerful pleasure and offer great value for money. Plus, they’re a breeze to clean—just rinse with warm water and use a sex toy cleaner to freshen up after each session.
While these sleeves are perfect for elevating your solo sessions, couples can also incorporate them into foreplay to enhance sensations and build suspense. For the smoothest experience, pair these toys (and others like them) with a water-based lubricant to keep everything slick and satisfying downstairs.
Start with: iDear Head Master Double Texture Blow Job Stroker
Read more:How to Use a Male Masturbator
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Pocket Pussies & Realistic Vaginas
Unlike non-realistic male masturbators, these sex toys are crafted to look and feel just like the real deal.
Pocket pussies are compact, handheld toys that replicate the lifelike sensations of intimate encounters. With no vibrations or complicated accessories, they’re straightforward yet incredibly effective—making them a favorite among beginner male sex toy users.
If you’re looking to take realism to the next level, realistic vagina male sex toys offer even more immersive benefits than pocket pussies. Featuring lifelike shapes, sensual internal textures, and hand-painted details, these toys provide an ultra-natural experience during solo play.
Start with:THRUST Pro Mini Ella Realistic Pocket Pussy
Read more:How to Choose the Best Pocket Pussy
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Fleshlights
The Fleshlight is one of the most iconic and recognizable male sex toys on the market. It comes in a discreet, travel-friendly case with a removable sleeve designed to deliver ultra-realistic sensations.
These gems are crafted from a patented SuperSkin material that feels incredibly soft and lifelike—like heaven for your prized possession. With a variety of openings to choose from—anus, vagina, mouth, or non-anatomical designs—and textured inserts to customize the “love tunnel” experience, it’s no wonder Fleshlights have become a fan favorite.
Start with:Fleshlight Flight Pilot Male Masturbator
Read more:How to Use a Fleshlight
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TENGA Strokers
While the Fleshlight is known for its realistic feel, TENGA takes things to a whole new level—some might even say it’s better than the real thing!
In this category, you’ll find the TENGA Onacups, Eggs, and Flip Hole—a fantastic range of masturbators with something to suit every preference. Whether you’re looking for an affordable option or a luxurious treat, TENGA products come in sleek, modern packaging and stand out with their unique designs and innovative sensations.
Start with:TENGA Egg Lovers Heart Textured Male Masturbator
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Male Vibrators
Why should people with vaginas have all the fun that comes with vibrators? Male vibrators bring the excitement to everyone, offering dong owners the same electrifying thrills.
These male sex toys harness the latest in sex tech to stimulate you in ways your hand simply can’t replicate. From intense pulsations to mind-blowing sensations, they take pleasure to a whole new level.
There’s a wide variety of options to choose from, including vibrating sheaths that slide over your shaft and premium toys that do all the work for you—just sit back, relax, and enjoy the ride.
Start with:Blowmotion Warming Rechargeable Vibrating Male Masturbator
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Prostate Massagers
The prostate gland is a hidden gem nestled deep within the male pelvis. Packed with sensitive nerves, it can deliver mind-blowing sensations when stimulated.
By using a prostate massager, you can access this divine spot through the anus. Many users report experiencing incredible full-body orgasms and even reaching climax solely through prostate stimulation. OMG, trust us—you’ve got to try it!
Start with:iDear High Roller Remote Control Rotating Prostate Massager
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The Best Prostate Massagers
10 frequency vibrator
Original price was: ¥89.90.¥49.90Current price is: ¥49.90.
10 Modes Mini Vibrator
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10 Speed Clit Sucker
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2 In 1 Sucking Vibrator
Original price was: ¥89.90.¥49.90Current price is: ¥49.90.
20 Speed Powerful Vibrating Egg
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3 In 1 Dildo Rabbit Vibrator
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30 Speed G Spot Rabbit Vibrator
Original price was: ¥89.90.¥49.90Current price is: ¥49.90.
3D Vagina Male Nasturbators
Original price was: ¥139.90.¥69.90Current price is: ¥69.90.
7 Modes G Spot Vibrator Egg
Original price was: ¥71.90.¥31.90Current price is: ¥31.90.
7.48″ Inches Lifelike Silicone Dildo
Original price was: ¥89.90.¥49.90Current price is: ¥49.90.Penis Pumps
Penis pumps can be a game-changer for guys dealing with erection issues, and with regular use, they may even provide a long-lasting boost to your size. The suction action draws blood into your shaft, creating a firm and satisfying sensation.
You can use it before intimacy, and your penis should retain its enhanced length and girth while you enjoy the moment. It’s like giving your joystick a temporary upgrade!
Start with:Tracey Cox EDGE Ultimate Performance Stamina Penis Pump
Read more:How to Increase Your Penis Size
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Penis Extenders
If you’ve ever dreamed of being “hung like a horse,” these male sex toys are a fun and intriguing option to try. Whether you’re not entirely satisfied with your current size or simply want to experiment with something new, penis extenders offer an exciting way to mix things up.
Without a doubt, a penis extender is a cost-effective solution for adding extra length and girth. Simply slide it over your shaft, secure it in place, and give your partner an unforgettable experience.
Start with:iDear Mega Thick 2 Extra Inches Penis Extender with Ball Loop
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Cock Rings
Designed to gently trap blood in the penis after achieving an erection, cock rings come in a wide variety of materials, sizes, and shapes to suit every preference.
A cock ring can enhance the firmness of your erection and may also help boost your stamina, making your performance last longer.
These versatile accessories can be used during sex to heighten both your pleasure and your partner’s, or you can wear one before using a penis pump for potentially even more impressive results.
Start with:iDear Get Hard Extra Thick Silicone Cock Ring Set
Read more:How to Use Cock Rings
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Vibrating Cock Rings
Vibrating cock rings offer all the benefits of traditional non-vibrating ones, but with an extra kick. These male sex toys deliver powerful vibrations that enhance pleasure for both you and your partner, adding a whole new level of excitement to your playtime.
You can also attach a vibrating cock ring to your favorite stroker for an even more thrilling experience. Alternatively, hold it in your hand and use it to stimulate your lover’s erogenous zones for added fun and intimacy.
Start with:iDear Bionic Bullet 5 Function Vibrating Cock Ring
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Ball Toys
Why let your penis hog all the attention when you can add tantalizing testicle play and amplify your satisfaction tenfold? Ball stretchers, dividers, and separators are fantastic tools to give your sac the stimulation it’s been secretly craving.
Ball stretching makes your boys more sensitive to touch, heightening sensations and creating new opportunities for pleasure (or pain, if that’s your preference). Testicle toys can also help prolong and intensify your orgasms—pretty sensational, right?!
Start with: Oxballs Squeeze 2-Inch Ball Stretcher
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Urethral Sounds
Did you know your urethra can be a source of intense erotic pleasure? If you didn’t before, now you do! Penis plugs and sounding rods are designed to gently penetrate the urethra, offering a uniquely stimulating sensory experience.
For penis owners, urethral toys can lead to prolonged erections, heightened sensitivity, and more intense orgasms. If you’re ready to explore sensations that many haven’t dared to try, sounding rods and penis plugs can unlock an entirely new level of thrilling excitement.
Start with: Master Series Silicone Urethral Sound Set
Read More: The Beginner’s Guide to Urethral Sounding
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Anal Toys
While the prostate might be the star of the show for penis owners, P-spot massagers aren’t the only ticket to anal orgasms. Butt plugs and anal beads, whether they’re prostate-focused or not, can deliver mind-blowing sensations for anyone with a penis.
From feeling full to stretching and even rimming simulation, there’s a whole world of anal pleasure waiting to be explored with plugs and beads. And yes, they can hit the prostate too!
Start with: iDear Get Started Beginner’s Anal Kit
Read More: How to Explore Anal Masturbation
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Top Anal Toys
10 frequency vibrator
Original price was: ¥89.90.¥49.90Current price is: ¥49.90.10 Modes Mini Vibrator
¥29.90 – ¥31.9010 Speed Clit Sucker
¥31.90 – ¥33.902 In 1 Sucking Vibrator
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¥39.90 – ¥51.9030 Speed G Spot Rabbit Vibrator
Original price was: ¥89.90.¥49.90Current price is: ¥49.90.3D Vagina Male Nasturbators
Original price was: ¥139.90.¥69.90Current price is: ¥69.90.7 Modes G Spot Vibrator Egg
Original price was: ¥71.90.¥31.90Current price is: ¥31.90.7.48″ Inches Lifelike Silicone Dildo
Original price was: ¥89.90.¥49.90Current price is: ¥49.90.Cock Cages
If your little friend has a taste for adventure, cock cages might just be the spicy twist you’ve been looking for. These chastity devices keep things under wraps—literally—by preventing full erections and adding a dash of tantalizing restriction to your playtime.
Most iDear cock cages come with a lock, letting you hand over the key (and the power) to your dominant partner for some steamy BDSM fun. Think of it as trust-building with a side of mischief.
Start with: CB-6000S Short Male Chastity Cage Kit
Read More: Beginner’s Guide to Chastity Devices
Nipple Toys
Who says nipple play is just for the boob squad? If you’ve got nipples, chances are they’re ready to party—with a little (or a lot) of stimulation! Nipple clamps and suckers get the blood flowing to your nips, making them ultra-sensitive once you take the toys off. Think of it as giving your nipples a little vacation with a big payoff.
Nipple suckers are like the friendly neighbor of nipple toys—gentler and perfect for beginners. Nipple clamps, on the other hand, are the bold adventurers, offering more intensity that you can customize to your liking thanks to their adjustable design.
Start with: iDear Perfect Pair Silicone Nipple Suckers
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Best-Selling Male Toys
10 frequency vibrator
Original price was: ¥89.90.¥49.90Current price is: ¥49.90.10 Modes Mini Vibrator
¥29.90 – ¥31.9010 Speed Clit Sucker
¥31.90 – ¥33.902 In 1 Sucking Vibrator
Original price was: ¥89.90.¥49.90Current price is: ¥49.90.20 Speed Powerful Vibrating Egg
Original price was: ¥71.90.¥31.90Current price is: ¥31.90.3 In 1 Dildo Rabbit Vibrator
¥39.90 – ¥51.9030 Speed G Spot Rabbit Vibrator
Original price was: ¥89.90.¥49.90Current price is: ¥49.90.3D Vagina Male Nasturbators
Original price was: ¥139.90.¥69.90Current price is: ¥69.90.7 Modes G Spot Vibrator Egg
Original price was: ¥71.90.¥31.90Current price is: ¥31.90.7.48″ Inches Lifelike Silicone Dildo
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