10 Best Dildos of 2024:
How to Choose a Dildo

Choosing the right dildo can feel overwhelming with so many options available. To simplify the process, here are the key factors to consider when buying a new dildo:

Choosing the Right-Sized Dildo is Important

When it comes to dildos, size matters—but what’s most important is choosing a size that feels comfortable for you. Too large, and it may feel uncomfortable or even painful. It’s also essential to consider the girth (thickness) of the toy when evaluating insertable lengths.

To determine the right size, think about toys or partners you’ve encountered in the past that felt good. This can help you gauge what might work best for you. Always read product descriptions carefully, as images onscreen can be misleading. At iDear, we always include the insertable size of the product in the description to make your decision easier.

Solo Play vs. Partner Play

If you’re planning to use your dildo with a partner, it’s a good idea to involve them in the decision-making process. Discuss measurements and preferences to ensure both of you are comfortable with the choice.

Alternatively, if you’re looking for a more interactive experience, consider purchasing a strap on kit. These kits come with everything you need for partnered play.

How Do You Decide What Size is Best for You?

First, determine whether you’ll be using the dildo vaginally or anally.

• Anal Dildos : Tend to be smaller and often curved for better stimulation of the prostate (P-spot).
• Vaginal Dildos : Can vary in size depending on your comfort level. A G-spot dildo is typically shorter and curved, while a longer dildo may be better for reaching deeper areas like the cervix.

Besides length, consider the girth (circumference). To measure, try inserting one, two, or three fingers into your vagina or anus to find what feels comfortable. Then, measure the circumference of your fingers—this will give you a good idea of the ideal size for your needs.

Vibrating Dildos vs. Vibrators: Which is Best?

Dildos and vibrators serve different purposes, though there is some overlap. Here’s how they differ:

• Dildos : Primarily designed for penetration (vaginal or anal). Most dildos do not vibrate, though some models, called “vibrating dildos,” combine penetration with vibration. Dildos tend to have a phallic shape and are often realistic, sometimes even cast from the genitals of male performers.
• Vibrators : Come in various shapes and are primarily designed for external stimulation (e.g., clitoral stimulation) or combined stimulation (e.g., clitoris and vagina). Vibrators often feature whimsical designs, such as rabbits, C-shaped toys, or suction features.

The main difference is that dildos focus on penetration, while vibrators offer multiple stimulation options and vibrate.

Think About Materials

Dildos come in a variety of materials, each with its own pros and cons. Here’s a breakdown of the most common options:

• Silicone : One of the best materials for dildos, silicone is hypoallergenic, 100% body-safe, and velvety smooth. It’s also non-porous, meaning it can be fully disinfected after use. Silicone is perfect for all types of insertion, including anal play.

• TPE, TPR & Soft Plastic : These materials are popular for creating ultra-realistic dildos with a lifelike flesh texture. While generally body-safe and phthalate-free, they are porous and cannot be fully disinfected. For anal play, consider using a condom to keep your toy clean.

• Glass and Metal : Hard materials like glass and metal are ideal for G-spot and P-spot stimulation. They’re also great for temperature play (heating or cooling) and are highly hygienic since they’re non-porous, just like silicone.