Lubes & Essentials Guides

Dear sells a wide range of products for men and women that can give you a boost in the bedroom. Our guides help you choose the right products for you.

Desr Guide to Lubes

Personal lubricants are your first defense against friction when having sex.

Think of lube as your sexy magic potion in a bottle-lube makes everything better, for a smoother, slicker, and way more nourishing experience, by lubricating the way for pleasurable penetration, and all types of sexy play.

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Best Lubes & Toy Cleaners

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10 frequency vibrator

Original price was: ¥89.90.Current price is: ¥49.90.
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10 Modes Mini Vibrator

¥29.90 – ¥31.90
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10 Speed Clit Sucker

¥31.90 – ¥33.90
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2 In 1 Sucking Vibrator

Original price was: ¥89.90.Current price is: ¥49.90.
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20 Speed Powerful Vibrating Egg

Original price was: ¥71.90.Current price is: ¥31.90.
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3 In 1 Dildo Rabbit Vibrator

¥39.90 – ¥51.90
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30 Speed G Spot Rabbit Vibrator

Original price was: ¥89.90.Current price is: ¥49.90.
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3D Vagina Male Nasturbators

Original price was: ¥139.90.Current price is: ¥69.90.
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7 Modes G Spot Vibrator Egg

Original price was: ¥71.90.Current price is: ¥31.90.
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7.48″ Inches Lifelike Silicone Dildo

Original price was: ¥89.90.Current price is: ¥49.90.
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    How to Use a Massage Candle

    Relax, reset, recharge.

    Fantastic as a sexy gift to indulge your partner, massage candles bring with them the promise of quality time and lavish attention. Find out more about how to make the most of your massage candle with the help of the Dear experts.

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    Top Massage Candles

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    10 frequency vibrator

    Original price was: ¥89.90.Current price is: ¥49.90.
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    10 Modes Mini Vibrator

    ¥29.90 – ¥31.90
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    10 Speed Clit Sucker

    ¥31.90 – ¥33.90
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    2 In 1 Sucking Vibrator

    Original price was: ¥89.90.Current price is: ¥49.90.
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    20 Speed Powerful Vibrating Egg

    Original price was: ¥71.90.Current price is: ¥31.90.
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    3 In 1 Dildo Rabbit Vibrator

    ¥39.90 – ¥51.90
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    30 Speed G Spot Rabbit Vibrator

    Original price was: ¥89.90.Current price is: ¥49.90.
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    3D Vagina Male Nasturbators

    Original price was: ¥139.90.Current price is: ¥69.90.
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    7 Modes G Spot Vibrator Egg

    Original price was: ¥71.90.Current price is: ¥31.90.
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    7.48″ Inches Lifelike Silicone Dildo

    Original price was: ¥89.90.Current price is: ¥49.90.
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      Best Gifts and Games

      Give the gift of arousal and fun!

      If you’re looking for a gift that will be truly appreciated and treasured, give your relationship the gift of incredible foreplay

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      Best-Selling Gifts and Games

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      10 frequency vibrator

      Original price was: ¥89.90.Current price is: ¥49.90.
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      10 Modes Mini Vibrator

      ¥29.90 – ¥31.90
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      10 Speed Clit Sucker

      ¥31.90 – ¥33.90
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      2 In 1 Sucking Vibrator

      Original price was: ¥89.90.Current price is: ¥49.90.
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      20 Speed Powerful Vibrating Egg

      Original price was: ¥71.90.Current price is: ¥31.90.
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      3 In 1 Dildo Rabbit Vibrator

      ¥39.90 – ¥51.90
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      30 Speed G Spot Rabbit Vibrator

      Original price was: ¥89.90.Current price is: ¥49.90.
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      3D Vagina Male Nasturbators

      Original price was: ¥139.90.Current price is: ¥69.90.
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      7 Modes G Spot Vibrator Egg

      Original price was: ¥71.90.Current price is: ¥31.90.
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      7.48″ Inches Lifelike Silicone Dildo

      Original price was: ¥89.90.Current price is: ¥49.90.
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        Guide to Condoms

        All your condom questions answered in one place.

        In this day and age, there’s no excuse for not protecting yourself and your lover. And with so many different colors, textures, and varieties available, using condoms can even enhance your play!

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        10 frequency vibrator

        Original price was: ¥89.90.Current price is: ¥49.90.
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        10 Modes Mini Vibrator

        ¥29.90 – ¥31.90
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        10 Speed Clit Sucker

        ¥31.90 – ¥33.90
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        2 In 1 Sucking Vibrator

        Original price was: ¥89.90.Current price is: ¥49.90.
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        20 Speed Powerful Vibrating Egg

        Original price was: ¥71.90.Current price is: ¥31.90.
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        3 In 1 Dildo Rabbit Vibrator

        ¥39.90 – ¥51.90
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        30 Speed G Spot Rabbit Vibrator

        Original price was: ¥89.90.Current price is: ¥49.90.
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        3D Vagina Male Nasturbators

        Original price was: ¥139.90.Current price is: ¥69.90.
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        7 Modes G Spot Vibrator Egg

        Original price was: ¥71.90.Current price is: ¥31.90.
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        7.48″ Inches Lifelike Silicone Dildo

        Original price was: ¥89.90.Current price is: ¥49.90.
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