How To Buy Sexy Underwear For Men
Because everyone deserves to feel amazing—no matter the gender.
For years, it seemed like women had all the fun with a wide variety of lingerie and bedroom clothing to tease and titillate their partners, while men were left with just a basic pair of black boxers or designer briefs. It hardly seems fair, does it?
But if you (like us) think it’s about time that changed, why not surprise your partner with some sensual underwear as a special gift? If you’re not sure where to start, we’ve got some top tips to help you choose the perfect briefs or boxers to keep him feeling sexy, happy, and confident—both in and out of the bedroom.
Why should I buy men's underwear?
There are several reasons why adding a touch of lace or mesh to his bedroom attire could be a game-changer!
Firstly, it can significantly boost his sexual confidence. Having a special outfit reserved just for intimate moments can make the experience more exciting and enjoyable for both of you.
Sensual fabrics like satin, microfiber, or lace add an extra layer of playful thrill that ordinary cotton underwear simply can’t match.
He might have been curious about trying something different but felt too shy to bring it up. Just as lingerie can make women feel powerful and desirable, wearing a sexy pair of boxers or a revealing thong can be a major turn-on for men.
How Can I Persuade Him to Dress Up?
If you’re worried that your partner might not be open to wearing men’s lingerie, the key is to have an open and honest conversation. Explain how much you’d love to see them in the underwear you’ve chosen, and reassure them that they’ll look amazing. Their main concern is likely to be feeling silly rather than sexy, so a little encouragement can go a long way.
You could also offer to return the favor by wearing an outfit of their choice. This not only sets their mind at ease but also adds a fun, reciprocal element to the experience.
Remember, they might need some time to warm up to the idea. If they’re truly uncomfortable, don’t push it. The most important thing is that both of you feel excited and happy with the experience.
How Do I Choose?
Thinking of buying new underwear for the special guy in your life? Great idea! But before you fill up your online shopping cart and check out with his surprise underwear gift, there are a few key things you might want to check first.
Knowing which styles and colors he prefers will most likely earn you a response of appreciation, and you’ll also want to make sure the underwear fits perfectly.
Read on for our top tips on getting it just right.
Step 1. Find Out What He Likes
Before you start shopping, it’s crucial to understand what your partner feels comfortable wearing. While you might want to gently nudge him out of his comfort zone, it’s best not to go overboard too quickly. Take a look at his wardrobe and make a note of the following:
- What size boxers or briefs he usually wears (S/M/L, etc.).
- The waist size of his trousers (34, 36, 38, etc.).
- Which styles he prefers (tight trunks, looser boxers, etc.).
- What colors or patterns he typically wears (plain white, checks, stripes, etc.).
By knowing his preferences, you’ll not only find it easier to choose a gift, but you’ll also increase the chances of him feeling comfortable and confident enough to wear it.
Step 2. Pick Your Style
When choosing the style of sexy male underwear, sticking with something he’s worn before is always a safe bet. However, if you’re unsure which style to pick, here are some tips to help you decide:
- Trunks and tight boxers: These offer good support and suit most body shapes. They’re also great for making slimmer frames appear more substantial.
- Briefs: Super comfortable and easy to wear under clothes, briefs are particularly flattering on men who carry more weight in their legs and lower body.
- Jockstraps, thongs and G-strings: These styles cling closely to the body, emphasizing his package and showing off his butt. They’re perfect for adding a bold, sexy touch.
Step 3. Choose the Material
Just like women’s lingerie, men’s underwear comes in a wide variety of fabrics, each offering a unique look and feel. Here are some fabric options to consider:
- For a Feminine Touch: If you think your partner would enjoy a more delicate and feminine look, lace or satin are great choices. These fabrics add a soft, luxurious feel and can make a bold statement.
- For a Kinky or Fetish-Inspired Look: If you’re into fetish play or your partner prefers something edgier, consider wet look or PVC. These materials add a bold, high-shine element that’s perfect for a more adventurous vibe.
- For a Safe-but-Sexy Option: If you want to start with something a bit more subtle but still impactful, look for underwear with sheer mesh panels or form-fitting Spandex and Lycra. These fabrics are both stylish and comfortable, offering a flattering fit without being too over-the-top.
- For Added Control and Confidence: Pay attention to details like lacing or pop-open panels. These features allow your partner to control how much they reveal, giving them the confidence to ease into the experience at their own pace.
Step 4. Check The Sizing
Most of our men’s underwear is sized in Small, Medium, Large, and Extra Large, making it relatively straightforward to find the right fit. However, if your partner falls between sizes, here are some tips to help you choose the best one:
- Check His Favorite Clothes: Look at the sizes of his most-worn clothes and underwear. If he loves wearing them, it’s likely because they fit comfortably and well.
- Refer to the Brand Size Chart: Many brands have slightly different measurements for each size. Check the size chart provided under the item description to see how his waist or chest measurements align with the brand’s sizing.
- Read Customer Reviews: Reviews from other buyers can be incredibly helpful. People often share their experiences with the fit, which can guide you if you’re unsure between two sizes.
- Consider One-Size Options: Some items are designed to be super-stretchy or have adjustable fastenings, making them suitable for a range of sizes. However, be cautious as they may not fit everyone perfectly.
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