Bondage & BDSM Guides

Explore the exciting world of kink with iDear's expert guidance

Welcome to the wonderful world of kink, where there’s a little bit of something for everyone. iDear‘s guide on BDSM explores everything you’ve ever wanted to know about BDSM practices, kink, and sexual roleplaying. Let’s get kinky!

Welcome to the wonderful world of kink, where there’s a little bit of something for everyone. iDear‘s guide on BDSM explores everything you’ve ever wanted to know about BDSM practices, kink, and sexual roleplaying. Let’s get kinky!

Bestselling Products for BDSM Explorers

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BDSM How-Tos

How to Introduce Bondage to Your Relationship

Japanese Rope Bondage Techniques

Beginner's Guide to Bondage

How to Spank Properly

Beginner's Guide to Chastity Play

Best Sex Machines

BDSM Gear Guides

How to Use a Feather Tickler

How to Use a Pussy Pump

Beginner's Guide to Ball Gags

How to Wear Latex

How to Use a Blindfold

How to Use Nipple Clamps

Beginner's Guide to Bondage Collars

How to Use Sex Swings and Furniture

How to Use Urethral Sounds

How to Use a Clit Clamp

Beginner's Guide to Electrostimulation

Power Dynamics Guides

What is a BDSM Dominant (Dom)?

What is a BDSM submissive (sub)?

What is a BDSM Switch?

More Sexual Happiness Advice

Sex Toy Advice

With so many great sex toys to choose from, our toy guides help you narrow down the best toys for you and how to make the most of them once you find the one that's right for you 
Sex Toys Advice

Better Sex Advice

Give your sexual happiness a boost and discover ways to make your sex life more fulfilling with our guides for improving your sex skills.

Better Sex Advice

Sexual Health & Wellness
Advice

Expert advice on how to address common sexual health concerns and boost your sexual wellness.
Sexual Health

Bondage Advice

Advice on everything from starting out with a little tie-and-tease play to dialling up your kinkiness to 10
Bondage Advice

Lubes & Sex Essentials Advice

Covering everything from choosing the right lube to cleaning and storing your toys
Lubes & Sex Essentials Advice

Lingerie Advice

Advice on everything from choosing the right style for your body shape to finding the right Dear size
Lingerie Advice