How to Build a Kinky Sex Room
(That Fits Your Space & Needs)

A once-niche pleasure product category that’s now finally on the general public’s radar (thanks, Melanie!) is positioning aids, and they’re a must for any sex room (and a grand bedroom addition even for those who don’t plan on creating a dedicated sex room, tbh). Whether you’re looking to add a slew of easily achievable Kama Sutra-style positions to your arsenal or want to make your fave classic positions feel even more amazing, sex furniture and its close relatives, positioning aids, are the best way to do so.

If you can go all out, you absolutely should—the erotic visual of a luxe, artfully curved sex couch like the Liberator Cello can make just as big of an impact on your libido as its ergonomic design and body support do on the quality and creativity of your sex position game. No need to fret if your lifestyle doesn’t lend well to having an obvious piece of sex furniture around, though. You can achieve the same physical effect with a modular sex positioner duo like the iDear Ultimate Sex Position Enhancer Set, which offers ample support and positioning possibilities during use. Think of it as the Swiss Army knife of sex furniture—compact, versatile, and ready for action.

For those seeking to enact adventurous sex positions oft-unexplored, bondage-inspired sex swings will undoubtedly quench your thirst, providing an almost weightless effect for the partner strapped inside of it. Sex swings designs come in two variations—classic and over-the-door—each with its own pros and cons.

Classic sex swings like the DOMINIX Deluxe Fantasy Bondage Swing hang from a hook securely embedded in your ceiling. Users generally place them somewhere clear of walls and other furniture items, making this sex swing style better for freedom of movement and exceptionally rowdy romps. While you can hide the swing and connector once the fun is done, you cannot hide the hook, which may be a concern for those requiring a high level of discretion. Think of it as your sex room’s permanent party guest.

Over-the-door sex swings like the Sportsheets Sex Swing Door Jam Kit use any closed door in your home as a secure hanging spot rather than the ceiling. Since they slip on and off doors in a jiffy, hiding them is no problemo, but they do offer a more limited range of motion due to the door being behind them. Another plus beyond their discreet nature that leads many to over-the-door sex swing purchases is their lower price point compared to most classic sex swing styles. Think of it as the sex swing for those who don’t want to commit to a permanent ceiling hook.

If you prefer to keep things simple in your first foray into positioning aids, smaller-scale items like wedges, ramps, and sex pillows are intuitive and unintimidating—and you can find many versions with included restraint attachment points, like the DOMINIX Deluxe Sex Position Wedge, for convenient bondage thrills. Though they may not appear as majestic as the lavish sex furniture items listed above, their support and stimulating angles will make far more than a dent in sexcapade satisfaction levels. Think of them as the humble heroes of your sex room, ready to boost your pleasure without making a fuss.