Bondage & BDSM Guides
Explore the exciting world of kink with iDear's expert guidance
What is BDSM?
Welcome to the wonderful world of kink, where there’s a little bit of something for everyone—and we mean everyone! iDear’s guide on BDSM dives deep into everything you’ve ever wanted to know about BDSM practices, kink, and sexual roleplaying. Whether you’re a curious newbie or a seasoned pro looking for fresh ideas, we’ve got you covered. So buckle up, grab your favorite toy, and let’s get kinky!
How to Build a Kinky Sex Room (That Fits Your Space & Needs)
Whether you’ve only got a corner to work with or an entire guest house, you’ll find the advice you need to create an erotic oasis that works for you and your home right here. No matter the size, turning a space into a sensual sanctuary can be a fun and exciting project. Let’s get started on making your dream kink space a reality!
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Your Own Personal BDsM Checklist
A Yes/No/Maybe checklist is an essential tool for any sexual explorer. It’s all about opening up communication, discovering where your and your partner’s interests overlap, and creating your own personalized BDSM bucket list. With iDear’s kinky checklist, you can dive into the world of BDSM practices, kink, and sexual roleplaying with confidence and clarity. Let’s get started on your kinky adventure!
BDSM Gear Guides
How to Use a Pussy Pump
How to Use Nipple Clamps
How to Use a Clit Clamp
Beginner's Guide to Ball Gags
Beginner's Guide to Bondage Collars
Beginner's Guide to Electrostimulation
How to Wear Latex
How to Use Sex Swings and Furniture
More Sexual Happiness Advice
Sex Toy Advice
With so many great sex toys to choose from, our toy guides help you narrow down the best toys for you and how to make the most of them once you find the one that's right for you

Better Sex Advice
Give your sexual happiness a boost and discover ways to make your sex life more fulfilling with our guides for improving your sex skills.

Sexual Health & Wellness
Advice
Expert advice on how to address common sexual health concerns and boost your sexual wellness.

Bondage Advice
Advice on everything from starting out with a little tie-and-tease play to dialling up your kinkiness to 10

Lubes & Sex Essentials Advice
Covering everything from choosing the right lube to cleaning and storing your toys

Lingerie Advice
Advice on everything from choosing the right style for your body shape to finding the right Dear size
