Bondage & BDSM Guides

Explore the exciting world of kink with iDear's expert guidance

What is BDSM?

Welcome to the wonderful world of kink, where there’s a little bit of something for everyone—and we mean everyone! iDear’s guide on BDSM dives deep into everything you’ve ever wanted to know about BDSM practices, kink, and sexual roleplaying. Whether you’re a curious newbie or a seasoned pro looking for fresh ideas, we’ve got you covered. So buckle up, grab your favorite toy, and let’s get kinky!

How to Build a Kinky Sex Room (That Fits Your Space & Needs)

Whether you’ve only got a corner to work with or an entire guest house, you’ll find the advice you need to create an erotic oasis that works for you and your home right here. No matter the size, turning a space into a sensual sanctuary can be a fun and exciting project. Let’s get started on making your dream kink space a reality!

Bestselling Products for BDSM Explorers

Your Own Personal BDsM Checklist

A Yes/No/Maybe checklist is an essential tool for any sexual explorer. It’s all about opening up communication, discovering where your and your partner’s interests overlap, and creating your own personalized BDSM bucket list. With iDear’s kinky checklist, you can dive into the world of BDSM practices, kink, and sexual roleplaying with confidence and clarity. Let’s get started on your kinky adventure!

BDSM How-Tos

How to Introduce Bondage to Your Relationship

Beginner's Guide to Bondage

Beginner's Guide to Chastity Play

Japanese Rope Bondage Techniques

How to Spank Properly

Best Sex Machines

BDSM Gear Guides

How to Use a Feather Tickler

How to Use a Blindfold

How to Use Urethral Sounds

How to Use a Pussy Pump

How to Use Nipple Clamps

How to Use a Clit Clamp

Beginner's Guide to Ball Gags

Beginner's Guide to Bondage Collars

Beginner's Guide to Electrostimulation

How to Wear Latex

How to Use Sex Swings and Furniture

Power Dynamics Guides

What is a BDSM Dominant (Dom)?

What is a BDSM submissive (sub)?

What is a BDSM Switch?

More Sexual Happiness Advice

Sex Toy Advice

With so many great sex toys to choose from, our toy guides help you narrow down the best toys for you and how to make the most of them once you find the one that's right for you 
Sex Toys Advice

Better Sex Advice

Give your sexual happiness a boost and discover ways to make your sex life more fulfilling with our guides for improving your sex skills.

Better Sex Advice

Sexual Health & Wellness
Advice

Expert advice on how to address common sexual health concerns and boost your sexual wellness.
Sexual Health

Bondage Advice

Advice on everything from starting out with a little tie-and-tease play to dialling up your kinkiness to 10
Bondage Advice

Lubes & Sex Essentials Advice

Covering everything from choosing the right lube to cleaning and storing your toys
Lubes & Sex Essentials Advice

Lingerie Advice

Advice on everything from choosing the right style for your body shape to finding the right Dear size
Lingerie Advice