Expert Guide to Squirting
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Squirting has been a topic of fascination since, well, forever. And yet, female ejaculation is still a bit of a mystery. Porn shows us over-the-top (and, let’s be honest, pretty unrealistic) scenes of gushing from orgasmic bliss. Magazines are filled with endless columns debating the topic. And that one friend in college who swears that “spraying the wall” was a rite of passage in many cultures… Yeah, they might be stretching the truth a bit.
But what if you’ve never experienced the so-called “ultimate female orgasm”? How do you get there?
Let’s break it all down, from busting the myths about how to squirt to uncovering the real truth behind why some people can and some can’t. We’ll spill the beans on everything we know, sharing our expert tips on how to make yourself squirt, the best ways to enjoy squirting during sex with a partner, how to relax into the experience, and even the toys that can turn you into a squirting pro.
Learn how to make yourself squirt: 4 Expert Tips
Now that you know more about what it is, it’s only natural to think about how to do it! Well, squirting isn’t for everyone – some will and some won’t, but if it’s something you’re keen to explore and try in the bedroom, there are a few key tips that might help in driving you to orgasmic rush of the gush.
1. Relax
Although female ejaculation is as natural as breathing and as normal as wearing socks, remember that once you’ve nailed this skill, it’s like riding a bike—only easier to trigger (and sometimes it just happens on its own, like a surprise party you didn’t plan). Until you reach that point, practice is key, and so is chilling out.
Sensual products like massage rocks or a body massager can be your new best friends here. Talking openly with your partner, or even having a heart-to-heart with yourself, about why you’re into the idea of squirting can also be super helpful. You might discover desires that are worth exploring, whether you squirt on the first go or the hundredth. Putting too much pressure on yourself to squirt is like trying to force a sneeze—it’ll just make you more anxious and less likely to let loose.
Having a toy on hand that lets you explore the sensations you already love and helps you relax can be a game-changer. Versatile sex toys are like the Swiss Army knives of the bedroom—they’re perfect for squirting adventures. The Ignite G-Spot Finger Vibrator, for instance, can get things warmed up with some external stimulation, build that arousal, and then zero in on the G-spot for some targeted fun.
2. Prepare
Alright, let’s get real: trying to relax when you’re attempting to squirt for the first time is easier said than done. Even the tiniest things can amp up your anxiety levels faster than a caffeine overdose.
If you’re stressing about accidentally peeing during the big moment, plan ahead and take a bathroom break beforehand. And if the thought of wet sheets is enough to make you want to throw in the towel, consider laying down some towels or splurging on a waterproof bedsheet. Trust me, it’s worth the investment.
We recommend the Liberator Fascinator Throw for total peace of mind. It’s like a waterproof cape for your bed, making you feel like a superhero of relaxation.
3. Test What You’re Working With
Your PC muscles are like the unsung heroes of female ejaculation. We often think about tightening them, but guess what? Fully relaxing these muscles is just as crucial for those mind-blowing orgasms. After all, orgasms are all about the sweet dance of contraction and release in our genitals.
When it comes to squirting, training your PC muscles to fully relax can be a game-changer. Practicing kegels isn’t just about squeezing; it’s also about mastering the release that helps you let go of that female ejaculate. Working your PC muscles with kegel balls is like giving them a personal trainer. A training set, like the iDear Health Silicone Kegel Toning Set, is perfect for anyone looking to level up their squirting skills. These sets come with graduated kegel balls that increase in weight, helping you build more control over your PC muscles as you progress. They also let you practice that “bearing down” motion, which is key for the release associated with squirting.
You can easily test your PC muscle strength by inserting two fingers into the vagina. If you can’t comfortably slide in two fingers, your PC muscles might be overextended. In that case, learning to fully relax these muscles should be your top priority. Think of it like stretching a rubber band that’s been pulled too tight.
If you can squeeze snugly around two fingers, your PC muscles are in great shape—congrats, you’re a PC muscle rockstar! But if you can’t get a snug squeeze, your PC muscles need a bit of toning. No worries, though—kegel exercises are like the ultimate workout for your PC muscles, and with a little practice, you’ll be feeling the difference in no time.
4. Aim for the G-spot
Some folks can orgasm just from clitoral and external stimulation, but for many, the most powerful squirting comes from G-spot stimulation. That’s where the magic happens—the fluid builds up there during arousal. Find that sweet spot, and the orgasm is yours for the taking. It’s like finding the hidden treasure map to pleasure!
Toys like the Fifty Shades of Grey Greedy Girl G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator are designed to give your G-spot some serious attention. Pair it with deep, rhythmic “milking” motions, and you might just feel that fluid release into a pleasurable gush. Remember, squirting is a marathon, not a sprint. You’ll need to stimulate your G-spot for a while before the fluid builds up enough to release. That’s why dual stimulation toys or using an additional vibrator externally can be super helpful to keep arousal high while you massage that G-spot.
You’ll know you’re close to squirting when you start to feel tingles running down your thighs, and the targeted massage feels like it’s pressing against a buildup of pressure in the G-spot area. It’s like the feeling right before a sneeze, but way more fun!
Ready to take your squirting journey to the next level? Check out our favorite toys for squirting. These tools are like your trusty sidekicks on the road to pleasure.
The Best Sex Toys for Squirting
Let’s talk about sex toys—because who doesn’t love a good toy collection? We’re not just tooting our own horn here, but we’ve got a pretty solid idea of which toys are worth adding to your arsenal. If you’re new to the world of sex toys, you might be wondering which ones are best for stimulating the G-spot and helping you squirt.
G-Spot Sex Toys
G-spot sex toys come in all sorts of shapes, sizes, and textures, but they usually have one thing in common—a specially curved tip. This little curve is what helps these toys reach and tickle the G-spot, which is the erogenous zone most likely to get you squirting when properly stimulated.
Some G-spot toys vibrate or pulse, while others, like dildos, have no motor at all. You can even find G-spot vibrators with clit-stimulating functions, like suction or rabbit ears. No matter which toys you choose to bring into your playtime, always pair them with a slick water-based lubricant to enhance comfort and pleasure.
The Best Sex Toys for Squirting
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How to Squirt During Sex with a Partner?
Squirting during solo play is like discovering a hidden treasure, but sharing that experience with a partner? That’s like finding a whole treasure island! If you’re reading this as the partner, you might be wondering how to get your lover to squirt. If so, here are a few considerations to think about.
Take your time, build arousal and stay steady
Let’s get real—orgasms aren’t a fast-food drive-thru. You can’t rush them and expect them to feel great. Any orgasm that needs a high level of arousal isn’t gonna happen in a blink. Squirting, in particular, often takes time because the fluid buildup in the body increases with arousal. So, masturbation and foreplay are absolutely key in any squirting quest.
This gives you and your partner the chance to explore the whole body. Enjoy a long, hot make-out session. Fondle, caress, spank, and squeeze each other. Partners—pay special attention to your partner’s breasts and nipples, or any erogenous zone on their body that really turns up the heat for them. Zone in on the clitoris and coax an orgasm with fingers, a tongue, or indeed a vibrator before focusing on the G-spot.
When you’re ready, use lots of lubricant and with a well-curved g-spot massager or your hand, target the G-spot with deep, rhythmic motions. With broad strokes reaching from the back of the G-spot to the front or from side to side, steadily massage the G-spot area with firm pressure. Some receivers will need continuous vibration externally to handle the targeted internal massage, which is why it’s good to have a vibrator on hand.
Squirting can happen through traditional penetrative sex with a penis or dildo. However, targeted G-spot stimulation is the most effective way to get there, so make sure you’re in a position that allows shallow thrusts and the right angle for hitting the G-spot.
Top Sex Positions to get squirting
You’ve got your toys ready, but what about the position? If you’ve ever flipped through the Kama Sutra, you know there are enough positions to keep you busy for a lifetime. So, we’ve narrowed it down to three of the best for squirting.
- Do It Doggy Style: This classic position lets the penetrating partner control the depth and angle of each thrust, making it perfect for targeting the G-spot. Add a c-shaped couples vibrator to intensify the massage to the G-spot area. Think of it as giving your G-spot a spa day.
- Riding on Top: This position is like the driver’s seat of pleasure. It allows the receiving partner to control the depth, angle, and pace of penetration. Feel it out as you ride yourself toward that much-anticipated climax. You could even try sharing the vibes from a vibrating cock ring while you get there. It’s like adding a turbo boost to your pleasure ride.
- Good Ol’ Fashioned Missionary: Some people find it easiest to relax when they’re on their back. Missionary position can allow for targeted G-spot stimulation when you throw a position pillow, like the Liberator Wedge, into the mix. The wedge lifts the receiver’s hips up, providing the right angle for accessing the G-spot with every thrust. It’s like giving your G-spot a front-row seat to the action.
There you go! These positions are like the secret ingredients to your squirting recipe.
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If it happens and you love it—fantastic! Keep doing what makes you happy. If you’ve tried it and it’s not your thing, that’s perfectly fine too.
Here’s the thing: Squirting or reaching climax doesn’t have to be the grand finale of every intimate encounter. Sometimes, it’s just about enjoying the moment, exploring your body, discovering new sensations, and riding that wave of endorphins that come with sexual pleasure. You might find that the sensations during squirting are super intense, and that’s okay! You might prefer to transition back to a more familiar way of orgasming, and that’s totally cool too.
If you do enjoy the intense sensations, you’ll start to recognize the clues your body gives when you’re close to squirting. If you start applying the “bear down” technique with your PC muscles when you feel those clues, you might be able to expand squirting into other kinds of play that don’t involve targeted G-spot stimulation.
Either way, happy exploring!
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Now that you’ve got the lowdown on how to squirt solo and with a partner, why not become the ultimate squirting guru? Dive into these extra guides to turn yourself into a veritable fountain of squirting wisdom.
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