The Ultimate Guide to Butt Plugs:
How to Use a Butt Plug and the Best Butt Plugs to Try
Butt plugs are like the unsung heroes of the sex toy world—easy to spot but often MIA from the average toy drawer. These small yet mighty, missile-shaped marvels hit one of the body’s most sensitive hotspots, yet they’re still misunderstood and not getting the attention they deserve.
We’re here to clear the air and answer your burning questions: 1) How to use a butt plug like a pro, 2) Which styles of butt plugs are the crowd favorites (and perfect for different bodies), and 3) What exactly you can do with a butt plug besides just plugging it in. Let’s get to it!
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Unlike vaginas, anuses don’t come with their own built-in slip ‘n slide. That’s why it’s crucial to grab a thick, anal-friendly lubricant when you’re diving into the world of butt plugs. No matter the size or shape of your plug, skipping the lube is like showing up to a pool party without a swimsuit—just don’t do it.
The type of lube you choose depends on your plug’s material and your personal preferences, but a high-quality water-based anal lubricant is like the universal remote of pleasure—it works with pretty much everything. Plus, it makes insertion smooth and glide-y, turning up the fun factor big time.
Get Clean—Because Nobody Likes Surprises
Let’s face it: your bum has a full-time job that doesn’t involve fun and games. That’s why a little extra prep is key to making sure you’re squeaky clean before diving into anal exploration. Being clean isn’t just about hygiene or being polite to your partner—it’s also about peace of mind. Knowing you’re fresh as a daisy down there helps you (the proud butt plug wearer) relax and enjoy the ride.
For most people, getting clean is as easy as a good wash in the shower or bath before using your plug. You can lather up your finger with warm soapy water and gently insert it past the sphincters to give the area a quick clean. If you’re feeling extra cautious, try an anal douche with warm water about 45 minutes before playtime. Timing it right gives your body enough time to settle, helping you avoid any unexpected plot twists.
Warm Up and Take It Slow—Rome Wasn’t Built in a Day
Here’s a pro tip: knock before entering. Your anus is packed with nerve endings, so start by giving the area some love externally with a well-lubed finger. A little stroking can help relax that sensitive sweet spot. When you’re ready, apply gentle pressure to the anus. If your body’s on board, you’ll feel it loosen up and practically roll out the welcome mat.
A little light penetration with your finger—or some rimming if you’re playing with a partner—can get your body prepped for the main event. And hey, if you’re looking to double down on relaxation, there’s no harm in climaxing before inserting the plug. Call it a warm-up act for the grand finale.
Once you’re ready, slather your plug in a thick, anal-friendly lubricant. Then, find a comfy position: go doggy-style on all fours, lie back with a cushion under your butt and your legs spread, or squat over the plug like you’re about to win a gold medal in yoga. Gently slide it in, and if you feel any discomfort, pause and let your body adjust to the new sensations. Patience is key—it’s not a race, it’s an experience.
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Once your plug is snugly in place, you’ll feel that satisfying sense of fullness. Butt plugs are a fan favorite because they hit those hard-to-reach nerve endings and stay put no matter what kind of fun you’re having. Whether you’re getting busy with your partner (PIV or oral), vibing solo with your favorite vibrator, teasing your nipples, or just doing anything else that gets you going—your plug is along for the ride.
Depending on your anatomy, inserting a butt plug can bring a variety of perks. For one, it reduces the space in your pelvis, which can make the vagina feel tighter during penetrative play. Talk about a game-changer! In some cases, depending on the size and shape, a plug can also reach the prostate, applying just the right amount of pressure to turn up the intensity of your orgasm.
When you reach climax, the contractions around the plug feel even more intense, stimulating those often-overlooked nerve endings around the anus. It’s like giving those nerves their moment in the spotlight.
If you’ve just had an earth-shattering orgasm while wearing your plug, give yourself a minute. Those muscles need a little time to relax before you gently pull on the flared base to remove your toy. Patience pays off—it’s not a race to the finish line.
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Why Do People Use Butt Plugs?
Still scratching your head about butt plugs? Wondering why you’d pick one over, say, your hands, a partner’s appendage, or some other toy in the drawer?
The magic of these little adventurers lies in their design—they’re shaped to fit your body perfectly and are more than happy to help you unlock the pleasures hiding behind door number two.
Butt plugs come in all shapes, sizes, and materials, so finding “the one” depends on your experience level, anatomy, and what kind of sensations you’re chasing. The beauty of butt plugs? They’re hands-free! Once inserted, they’re designed to stay put while you focus on other erogenous zones or activities. Think of them as your silent partner, adding a layer of fullness and pressure to your backdoor while you multitask—like getting an extra hand (or appendage) in the mix.
All anal plugs have a tapered base, which makes them safe for play. Why does this matter? Well, the sphincter muscles in your anus can contract involuntarily when you’re aroused, creating a pulling sensation. Toys without a flared base? Not so safe—they could get pulled in like a disappearing magic trick. With a butt plug, you can relax knowing it’s staying exactly where it should while you focus on the fun.
Some plugs are curved with a contoured bulb to hit that sweet spot—the prostate (or P-spot). Others even vibrate and come with remote controls, adding a thrilling twist to couple’s play. Whether you’re flying solo or spicing things up with a partner, butt plugs are a simple, versatile tool that can enhance pleasure for all bodies.
Why do vagina owners use butt plugs?
Using a butt plug can take all kinds of sex to the next level for vagina owners—and their partners, too. Think of it as the ultimate bonus feature in your pleasure toolkit.
Here’s the deal: a butt plug adds pressure to the back vaginal wall, turning up the intensity of sensations during penetration—whether you’re using a dildo, vibrator, or enjoying some quality time with a partner. It’s like adding an extra layer of “oomph” to the experience.
And let’s not forget about the anus itself—it’s home to the second-highest concentration of nerve endings in the body (right after the clitoris). A butt plug delivers that delightful feeling of fullness in the rectum while stimulating the ultra-sensitive anal opening. This dual action doesn’t just stay local—it can amplify sensations across other erogenous zones, making everything feel more intense and connected.
In short, butt plugs aren’t just for the backdoor—they’re a full-body experience enhancer.
Why do penis owners use butt plugs?
Let’s just say this: penis owners might be biologically wired to enjoy anal play. The prostate—often nicknamed the “male G-spot”—is an incredibly sensitive gland that feels amazing when stimulated. Located about two to three inches up on the front wall of the anus, it’s like a hidden treasure chest waiting to be discovered.
You’ve probably heard of prostate milking, and yes, it’s a real thing. Stimulating the prostate can lead to mind-blowing orgasms and/or ejaculation that feel next-level intense. It’s like unlocking a secret level in the game of pleasure.
That’s where butt plugs come in. Certain plugs are designed with extended reach and ergonomic curves to target the prostate with deep, satisfying internal massage. And if you’re looking to kick things up a notch, some even come with vibration for that extra “wow” factor. Think of it as upgrading from economy to first class.
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